Tuesday, August 14, 2007

i was wondering. nt only me but naqiah too.
sometimes we jus wonder how some people fall in love easily? is it because the other party is good-looking? is it because they think that they are too attractive? is it because they feel that they need someone to rely and share their life with but to the extend of constantly changing bf/gf? or maybe for fun? but to think back, then y dump someone and gt a new bf/gf within days or worse still, hours? y that person could easily forget the ex after mths or yrs of relationship and find someone new as fast as a lightning after maybe claiming with the ex that the love between them is true love? i wonder how.. im nt talking abt kids, but young adults.

are there just too many rooms/doors inside their heart? some even 2 times their bf/gf. to make it more 'cool' and 'happening', they have more than 2. wow! pimp huh.. if u claimed that all along it's just a puppy love, then i will disagree. puppy love is defined as temporary infatuation of a boy or girl for another person. u dun go into a relationship but u like/admire that person. if u think it's an infatutaion, u wouldn't readily give your heart to the other person. it is NOT love! take your time to knw the other party and not to declare love only after u've known each other for a few days or maybe, a few hrs. what's there to rush? love won't run away. don't be kiasu. u've gt nth to lose.

take for example a 'friend' of mine back then. she changes bf like changing an underwear. one day u will see her with this guy, another day u will see her with another guy. on a several occassions, i saw her with different types of guys, holding hands, hugging and it's not like after a few mths i met her. it's only a matter of days. i think less than a week.

im not gonna proudly say that im sure gonna marry laling one day or im sure i wont fall in love with sum1 else. it's nt that. we love each other truly but we will nvr knw what we have in store for us in the future. who knws we might not end up together. like wat they say, "jodoh ditangan tuhan".
naqiah used to ask whether i think im gonna be with laling one day and i will answer it with a smile and just 3 words "i don't know". it took me weeks to like laling and yea, i still like him till now.

i dun consider my past relationships with other guys as puppy love coz seriously, i dun love them. y gt into relationship then? because i was too naive. wat u expect? i was still a kid.

but for now, our love is strong enough. =)

oh yes, u can start disagreeing if u want too. afterall, this is just my opinion.

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